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Adult Personals
The Art of Giving
When you love someone, you want to give them everything
you have...and sometimes things that you can't afford to
give. Remember, there are many things you can give that cost
only your time and effort, and those are often the things
that mean the most. For example, go out of your way to spend
extra time with your partner. Give him/her a small gift for
no specific reason. Resolve to say only positive things to
your partner for a week. Do something for your partner that
he/she is not expecting, or give him/her a compliment in
public. These gifts cost little but will be appreciated
beyond words.
Writing a Love Letter
Imagine you and your dating partner havenīt seen each other
for a month or more. Write a love letter to your
partner...write about how you miss him/her, how you enjoyed
the last time you were together, or what you plan to do when
you see each other again. Begin to express your feelings of
love and tenderness for your partner with notes like this on
a regular basis. It may be difficult to do this at first,
but it will get easier the more you do it. Eventually, you
may even think it is fun!
Expressing Love In Appropriate Ways
Society has taught us that sex is the most vital way of
expressing our love. However, in his book Finding the Love
of Your Life, Dr Warren suggests that, "When sexual
expression is not kept in check, the emotional, cognitive
and spiritual aspects of the relationship become slaves to
the physical desires." It is important to express love in
many ways other than sex. Instead, express love with acts of
friendship, compassion, kindness and just plain fun! Don't
think that a romantic relationship doesn't appreciate a
little TLC, too.
How Does My Past Impact My Dating?
Have you ever considered how your family patterns have
affected your dating behavior? Consider the following:
How does your family solve problems?
How does your family communicate?
Does your family spend time together?
Is religion important in your family?
How important is commitment to your parents?
How do your parents show appreciation and affection?
Once you have analyzed your family, it is a good idea to
write down specific ways that you have been influenced by
your family. For example, do you want to show affection the
way your parents did or would you like to do it differently?
If you want to do it differently, how will you make that
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