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Decision Making Steps
It is very important to define what you want and need in a
dating relationship and in marriage. Then look at your
resources. Are you ready to marry? Do you have enough dating
experience to feel like you are marrying the right person?
Gather as much information as you can on the person you are
dating. Take your time and make a wise choice. Definitely
compare your choices. If you feel like you donīt have a
choice, step back and evaluate further. Never rush into a
serious relationship. Once you have decided to advance your
relationship, develop a plan and get started on improving
your relationship. Finally, evaluate your decision and make
relationship changes if necessary.
Develop A Clear Idea of Your Ideal Spouse
In his book, Finding the Love of Your Life, Dr. Warren
suggests that people who are dating should have a clear
mental image of their ideal spouse. He believes it is
important to know what you really want. Ask yourself: How
important is attraction to me? What type of personality do I
like? Does intelligence and ambition matter to me? How
important are religious beliefs and character? Asking
questions like as part of a conscious process can help you
ultimately choose a better marriage partner.
When Love Begins
Harry Stack Sullivan, a wise psychologist, once said, "Love
begins when a person finds another person's needs to be as
important as his own." Use this ideal as a measuring stick
for every relationship. Do you care more for your partner's
needs than your own? If you can honestly answer yes, then
you may be in love! If your partner feels the same, you can
both consider yourselves lucky. You have each found your
soulmate and, hopefully, you will continue to be happy
together.
Take Your Time
How long does it takes to get to know someone well enough to
marry them? Is one month long enough? Six months? One year?
The specific timeframe is different for everyone, but one
thing is universally true: rushing into a relationship makes
you much more vulnerable for a bad experience. If you take
your time getting to know someone, you will learn about
their good and bad points. If you watch their behaviors over
time, you will get a feel for how they handle pressure and
stress, how they are with children, how they are with their
family and how they treat you when you are with their
friends. Time will also let you know if you and your partner
can trust each other with each other's hearts. |